How to spit game 101.(PLease Read Rules)

[downshift_sideways]

This thread is intended to help those out there that have no game. I know many of you like cars, and computers...and honestly..I think about 60% of you cats. Either have no lifes/Boring lifes/and no game whatsoever (no disrespect) However take in any opinions given in this thread and apply it to your own lifes. I hope you can learn something outta this.

Now there are rules for this thread however:
#1 You can only post questions. No stupid opinions or this thread will be closed. We will awnser every question posted. Give us time however. We are both busy bee's.
#2 If you have an opinion. Please PM me or Lisa (DRavens13)
#3 Learn something!


So here we go; HOW TO SPIT GAME 101.

I personally believe that you have to sit back and watch your target before engaging in a conversation or any kind of interaction. You have to have a good fast thinking mind and you have to be smoooooth during the approach.

Now you can tell a lot about a woman by simply looking at her swag/style or however you wanna call it. I know most of us guys look up and down girls when passing by (at least I hope so) So take in mind everything about her. And NOTICE THE SMALL DETAILS. Such as Eyes, hair color, dimples etc. You also need to play it smart and use the environment around you aswell. Meaning if your in a music store...approach with a music conversation..etc.etc.etc.

BUT to get to this step first. You must feel confident and expect the worse. Everyone gets shot down. I've been shot down hundred of times cold blooded but that's never stopped me...just don't dwell on it, and move to the next one.

Now obviously you can't get to know a lady without an approach/pick up line...So you need to say something that INTERESTS her. Or something that will make her LAUGH and feel abit more comfortable.(usually this breaks the ice) If she's not feeling comfortable at all..then most likely she's not going to even look at you and walk away.

Girls like BOLD guys that STAND out I would imagine. Meaning if you have the balls to go up to a GROUP of ladies..and talk to one in particular then that sets you aside than all the hundreds of guys that are in the area, but I'll admit they are more harsh in packs. So keep your "A" game on.

(Try not to ask any questions that use a "yes" or a "no" response only because it shortens the time span with quick awnsers, and she walks away)

Some people like to use pickup lines. I LOVE TO. Pickup lines are a broken record, but I know for a fact it catches a bit of laughter deep deep deep down inside her awkward look she gives you

Sample Pickup Lines I love to use:

"Hey beautiful? That is your name right??".

(if outside at a bar)"Do you have a cigarrette?(wait for the response..) Because your smoking". -Copyright by Andrew Bohan of Lab17.


"Are you lost? Because heaven's a long way from here".

"Excuse me..do you have the time?". <--and go with it from there. Gotta think smart homies. Because 90% of the time they will respond.

Now once the conversation has begun...I cannot help you out from there. It's all on your own personality to keep the ball rolling. Always look into her eyes when speaking. Don't look down or around, It's very respectful to stay locked on her.

Now I personally use this trick, where I look to the left eye, then to the right eye slowly back and forth while speaking to her. This shows that you are LISTENING to what she has to say, or that you are seriously putting deep concern about this woman.

[DRavenS13]

This thread is intended to help those out there that have no game. I know many of you like cars, and computers...and honestly..I think about 60% of you cats. Either have no lifes/Boring lifes/and no game whatsoever (no disrespect) However take in any opinions given in this thread and apply it to your own lifes. I hope you can learn something outta this.

I also will be adding to this as well. You can have all the advice from another guy, there's plenty of them here, but I will be adding my .02 since after all, a female point of view will get you further into the game. If you'll listen to a fat guy on the radio that's been through 4 marriages, then surely you'll take heed to my advice, as it only took one time for me to be married and hate it before I learned my lesson.

I personally believe that you have to sit back and watch your target before engaging in a conversation or any kind of interaction. You have to have a good fast thinking mind and you have to be smoooooth during the approach.

While you guys sit and watch us like hungry hyenas surveying the pack, we're just as aware of you guys. Upon walking into the place, we've already sized up the entire area, and pretty much know what we're walking into. The time it takes for you to size one girl up, we've already broken down every single person in the club.

Now you can tell a lot about a woman by simply looking at her swag/style or however you wanna call it. I know most of us guys look up and down girls when passing by (at least I hope so) So take in mind everything about it. And NOTICE THE SMALL DETAILS. Such as Eyes, hair color, dimples etc.You also need to play it smart and use the environment around you aswell. Meaning if your in a music store...approach with a music conversation..etc.

BUT to get to this step first. You must feel confident and expect the worse. Everyone gets shot down. I've been shot down hundred of times cold blooded but that's never stopped me.

Now obviously you can't get to know a lady without an approach/pick up line...So you need to say something that INTERESTS her. Or something that will make her LAUGH and feel abit more comfortable.(usually this breaks the ice) If she's not feeling comfortable at all..then most likely she's not going to even look at you and walk away.

Girls like BOLD guys that STAND out I would imagine. Meaning if you have the balls to go up to a GROUP of ladies..and talk to one in particular then that sets you aside than all the hundreds of guys that are in the area, but I'll admit they are more harsh in packs. So keep your "A" game on.
Try not to ask any questions that use a "yes" or a "no" response only because it shortens the time span, and she walks away)

Some people like to use pickup lines. I LOVE TO. Pickup lines are a broken record, but I know for a fact it catches a bit of laughter deep deep deep down inside her awkward look she gives you

PLEASE don't be creepy about it. While you're studying the target, try to be as ninja-like as possible. You don't wanna come off as a stalker.

Boldness is good, but don't be obnoxious. Nothing is a bigger turn-off than some guy that comes up to you and starts talking loudly, or being all touchy feely. Respect her space.

Also, consider your appearance. Don't come up to a girl if you smell like a barn, really smashed/stoned, or if you're dressed like a bum. Consider her as well. If she looks sick, or if she looks pissed off, you're more than likely gonna get blown off, because she just isn't in the mood. I realize that sometimes you can still talk to her when she's in a mood, but trust me, 9 times out of 10 it doesn't matter what you look like, or what you say, you're not gonna get through to her. Even if you look bomb, she knows that she doesn't, and she's gonna be extremely embarrassed and insecure, and that won't help.

PICK UP LINES

This, seriously, is hit-and-miss. If you use one, and she's put off by it, just keep moving. She obviously doesn't have a sense of humor, and you don't wanna deal with some girl that takes herself so seriously that she won't laugh at what you have to say.

Don't try to look smooth when using a pickup line. They're meant to be used as a joke to break the ice, and if you say one with a serious ass look on your face, you will be considered pathetic and useless.

Also, if she doesn't respond to you, just keep moving. But, catch her eye from time to time, to exhibit some interest. Girls like to be chased somewhat. If she blows you off, continue to work the room, but meet eyes with her from time to time when you see her. Showing interest even after you've been blown off might get you a second chance.

THE FRIENDS SITUATION

If you walk up to a girl that's with a group of friends, excuse yourself. The last thing you need is her friends fucking shit up for you which, 85% of the time, they will. Walk up, say excuse me, and look all of the friends in the group in the eye. It shows the target that you are not a pompous, disrespectful bastard. This is your chance to say something funny/witty/charming that will not only calm the basket of blood-sucking tarantulas that are her friends, but it will make her feel all special that you picked her out of the crowd.

Example:

"Hello ladies, how are you all doing [look them all in the eye, then revert back to the target]?
I don't mean to interrupt your good time, but I had to come over here and introduce myself to this [insert compliment here] lady that caught my eye."

Keep eye contact with the target at all times at this point, and really concentrate on whatever she says. Then, if she responds to you, hold out your hand to take hers, and at all costs, lead her away from the pack. You don't need her friends to interview you, they're not doing it because they care, they're doing it because 1- they're nosy as fuck, and 2- they're gonna plot a way to steal you away from her.

[ayuaddict]

Thinh should read this.

hahaha.

<3

[downshift_sideways]

Questions only. Please read rules

<3 Yuta.

[DRavenS13]

What Anthony forgot to add was, if you have questions about your skills, personal relationships, love life, blah blah, feel free to ask your questions here.

If you're having trouble picking up on girls, and don't know what you're doing, read here, and ask away.

[downshift_sideways]

^Exactly.

Thanks for clearing that up mah.

[Boostin on you]

were you that guy on mtv with your own show on teaching nerds to get laid by strippers?

if so REP +1

[HyperTek]

what do u look like?

go read the game by neil straus /thread

[stiizy]

Damn Ant why you aint put me up on this kid......

[LeftNutOfGowd]

Originally Posted by Boostin on you

were you that guy on mtv with your own show on teaching nerds to get laid by strippers?

if so REP +1

It wasn't on MTV it was on VH1 and the show was The Pick Up Artist



YouTube - Mystery Pick Up Artist tips on Opening - PUA VH1 Pickup

YouTube - Great Mystery story & routine to pick up girls! PUA VH1

YouTube - Art Of Seduction

YouTube - Mystery on approaching girls - attraction seduction PUA VH1

Here's my question how do you get rid of or get by The D.U.F.F. (Designated Ugly Fat Friend.)

[SimpleS14]

If you can't look into someone's eyes, at least look at them between the eyes....then once you're comfortable look them into the eyes. I <3 non-verbal communication (non-text based).

[i8yourfwd]

Questions only? haha

How do I get a girl to break up with her bf who lives across the country, when I already know she has a thing for me?

... haha damn, i feel like a jackass..

[Dirty Habit]

Originally Posted by SimpleS14

If you can't look into someone's eyes, at least look at them between the eyes....

Exactly. Always eye your landing pad before hand. If its too narrow, eyes might be lost, and its time for you to move on.lol.

Anyways, Im back in the game after being with a girl for 4 years and a month away from getting married. Alot has changed. I gotta step up my game now. This is gonna get interesting.

[drift925]

One thing I've been told by a bestfriend of mine was that- riding a motorcycle with a extra small size helmet in the back will give you greater opportunity towards human reproduction

[downshift_sideways]

Originally Posted by Boostin on you

were you that guy on mtv with your own show on teaching nerds to get laid by strippers?

if so REP +1

No that wasn't me.

Originally Posted by HyperTek

what do u look like?

go read the game by neil straus /thread

I look like myself. lol.

I've read lots of "game" books, but I think the best I've ever read was called

"The Art of seduction". This book helps you seduce woman. It's a very awesome book. you should grab it.

Originally Posted by stiizy

Damn Ant why you aint put me up on this kid......

lols. <333

Originally Posted by SimpleS14

If you can't look into someone's eyes, at least look at them between the eyes....then once you're comfortable look them into the eyes. I <3 non-verbal communication (non-text based).

Eye communication is one of the main points during the interaction however. I'd recommend looking str8 into your victims eyes and not inbetween.

Originally Posted by i8yourfwd

Questions only? haha

How do I get a girl to break up with her bf who lives across the country, when I already know she has a thing for me?

... haha damn, i feel like a jackass..

Well Jay.

Long distance relationships NEVER work out. It's very rarely that you'll catch one holding strong.
However in your situation...if her boy is long distance...all you have to do is hang out with her more...show her the things that her other boyfriend doesn't.
Basically you need to "sweep" her. Compliment her on her beauty, Show her new things that she's never experienced etc.
Just play your cards right and you'll get her man. The awesome part is that YOU are HERE at the moment with her, while he's out there.
I'm sure you'll know what to do Lets hope she's one of the dependent on another type chick.

Originally Posted by Dirty Habit

Exactly. Always eye your landing pad before hand. If its too narrow, eyes might be lost, and its time for you to move on.lol.

Anyways, Im back in the game after being with a girl for 4 years and a month away from getting married. Alot has changed. I gotta step up my game now. This is gonna get interesting.

Thats whatsup playa.
I'm back in the game after being locked up for damn near 2 years. and I'm loving every second of it. Stay up homie.

[i8yourfwd]

Originally Posted by downshift_sideways

Well Jay.

Long distance relationships NEVER work out. It's very rarely that you'll catch one holding strong.
However in your situation...if her boy is long distance...all you have to do is hang out with her more...show her the things that her other boyfriend doesn't.
Basically you need to "sweep" her. Compliment her on her beauty, Show her new things that she's never experienced etc.
Just play your cards right and you'll get her man. The awesome part is that YOU are HERE at the moment with her, while he's out there.
I'm sure you'll know what to do Lets hope she's one of the dependent on another type chick.

Werd.

She already admitted to having a thing for me not long after she moved back here. (We've also had history) She tried to not chill with me for fear of being unfaithful, but we still chill as much as we used to.

[lucky7]

man. i fail at this subject. i really think i have game, and plenty of it. i just have no idea how to harness it. i need to learn to use it for good, instead of evil.

heres one. howcome when i start a convo with a lady, it doesnt last very long? i just draw up blank. running out of questions and things to say sucks. and it makes me feel like a jackass. im sure it makes me look like a bigger jackass.

another situation ive found myself and others in. ive been out of school for 6 years. i work for my parents, so i have zero interaction with females. the only time im around them, is when i go to the bar. and 9 out of 10 times, its guys night. and im getting plastered and dont give a chit. haha. viscous cycle.

BUT. i have my first class this friday. business admin. we'll see how that goes. atleast ill be in contact with 'em. haha.

[ALTRNTV]

How do I stop girls from being all over me?

Can I contribute to this thread also? I got mad game,
son.

[stiizy]

^This guy haha

How do you get outta the friend zone just to hit but after still remain friends??

[exitspeed]

I have so much game, I had to get married for the world to be a safer place.

[rainier]

^^ i feel you man, its hard meeting new people if your working+school.

i go out a lot though, i just never have the balls to actually talk to someone in the club, i dont mind asking to dance, its just i dont hold a convo!

Question: where do people go to meet people? at bars? i think i just answered my own question. haha

[TooForOh]

Originally Posted by exitspeed

I have so much game, I had to get married for the world to be a safer place.

haha oh wowww.

[swiftdrift]

Not so much a question, but more of a request. I request to see these bootylicious bodacious bomdiggity beezies the OP's have picked up with this so-called "game".

I'd like to "see to believe".

[stiizy]

^^ See it think that would just start a war up in here cause everyone will swear their chicks are hot and then the Forum dickheads we have will start talking shit and hatin...

[24Ochick<3]

Originally Posted by downshift_sideways

Girls like BOLD guys that STAND out I would imagine. Meaning if you have the balls to go up to a GROUP of ladies..and talk to one in particular then that sets you aside than all the hundreds of guys that are in the area, but I'll admit they are more harsh in packs. So keep your "A" game on.

this my friend is verryy true. girls don't like the shy type. it's jus annoying... why do guys think its extreamly hot for a girl to take the lead and go up to a guy? please fill me in.

[swiftdrift]

Originally Posted by stiizy

^^ See it think that would just start a war up in here cause everyone will swear their chicks are hot and then the Forum dickheads we have will start talking shit and hatin...

I simply wanna see if this dude really got game...

You wouldn't wanna buy a Benz from a Kia dealership....

[stiizy]

I feel you on that...lol

[Bobafreak]

ohh god here we go. lol

[Gnnr]

Originally Posted by HyperTek

what do u look like?

go read the game by neil straus /thread

Most useful information in the whole thread. Every other book, every thing you think you know will pale in comparison to Mystery Method.

The guys you see getting girls without this method are doing so because they "get lucky" or are getting away on good looks. There is a rare few that have this method already internalized without having ever read the book.

[azndoc]

I've got more game than Nintendo.

Duh.....

Making a girl laugh is winning half of the battle.

Sorry to interrupt your thread.

But I just wanted to mention that when your talking to a girl you want to talk about happy stuff with her. Ask her questions about her life and just listen but make sure that she's talking about the good memories. blah blah blah.