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spooled240 · 02-15-2011, 02:03 PM

i wish the best for you guys

Fighting illness is a mental game as well as body so stay positive!

rbpwr · 02-15-2011, 02:11 PM

i have no clue as to who you are, but through the body of christ were all brothers. my prayers go out to you and youre family.

TurboSE · 02-15-2011, 03:04 PM

Many more thanks, the support you've all showed is overwhelming.

There hasn't been much change in her condition. The Dr's told her today that they'd like to operate on what might be abscesses at the point of her surgery. The downside is, they have anesthetize her and with a fever hovering around 104* she might not wake up. The flip side is that they put her on a central line to help get the medicine to her more quickly so her fever doesn't burn it up. However, she is already having heart and kidney issues and depending on the effectiveness of the meds, her condition could continue to worsen.

We're doing a lot of soul searching, trying to figure out which way to go on this decision.

jodett · 02-15-2011, 03:15 PM

Don't give up. I'll be praying for the both of you, and that god will give the doctors wisdom in their operation. stay strong.

azndoc · 02-15-2011, 03:17 PM

Good luck and my prayer goes out to her and to a fast recovery.

***Future240*** · 02-15-2011, 03:23 PM

You are in my prayers as well, I do hope everything turns out ok for both of you.

spinitsidewayz · 02-15-2011, 03:25 PM

Stay strong bro. Best wishes to both of you.

Audio Puppet · 02-15-2011, 03:26 PM

Dude i wish you and her the best. When she recovers send us invites to your weeding.

cardoza · 02-15-2011, 05:28 PM

Wishing the absolute best of luck to you and her. Just encourage her to keep fighting and to be strong and that will mean the world to her. Definitely will keep you and her in my thoughts and prayers.

Tokona-x · 02-15-2011, 09:08 PM

Keep your head up man I wish best for both of you and you both will be in my prayers.

Felipe · 02-15-2011, 09:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TurboSE

We're doing a lot of soul searching, trying to figure out which way to go on this decision.

thats the wost feeling ever. its even making me sad... ill will pray for you guys.

onehundredoctane · 02-15-2011, 09:47 PM

Painful news to hear about a loved one. Have they put her on dialysis at all?

You, your fiancée, and family are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that you get to post up some good news soon!

speeddream · 02-15-2011, 10:20 PM

I hope your fiance gets better from this point on. Your situation is very unfortunate, but if the sun is not shinning in your area, we will blow all the clouds from the sky so it can shine down upon the both of you. Like other people have mentioned already stay strong and positive brotha. She will get better.

tqstarburst · 02-16-2011, 12:00 AM

Don't let anything get to you man. No negative thoughts at all. God will know what's best.. Once april hits here send all zilvians and invitation to your wedding brotha! That be one sick s-chassis wedding!

cesar_240 · 02-16-2011, 12:16 AM

I'll have you guys in my prayers

itwillboost · 02-16-2011, 12:23 AM

I will pray for you guys, I hope for the best.

Teddy · 02-16-2011, 12:37 AM

Prayers to both of you, I truly truly hope she recovers quickly.

*revat619* · 02-16-2011, 12:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rbpwr

i have no clue as to who you are, but through the body of Christ we're all brothers. my prayers go out to you and your family.

QFT.

I'm praying for you two as well!

Isaiah 40:28-31

uraznfriend · 02-16-2011, 12:57 AM

My thoughts are with you and your fiancee i cant even imagine what your going through
i hope she recovers from this

Marcus · 02-16-2011, 01:11 AM

You have my prayers. best of luck to you two

Devius · 02-16-2011, 04:53 AM

Best of luck to you both

Zach-sr · 02-16-2011, 08:51 AM

Best of luck to you both. I couldn't imagine going through this myself.

TurboSE · 02-16-2011, 02:10 PM

Well, we decided to wait and see if the new meds made any difference and possibly have the surgery this afternoon. She was informed by the dr. this morning that her kidneys are in bad shape and that combined with her fever makes the surgery too risky. So now we're putting our faith and hopes in the antibiotics. She's having a hard time staying positive with the seemingly endless stream of bad news.

Your thoughts and prayers mean the world to us both...please keep us in them as we push through these dark times.

Tempo · 02-16-2011, 02:28 PM

a prayer and best wishes to you man, hope she gets well and you two live a long happy life.

no slide · 02-16-2011, 02:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by onehundredoctane

Painful news to hear about a loved one. Have they put her on dialysis at all?

You, your fiancée, and family are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that you get to post up some good news soon!

Ya I would ask about dialysis. If her kidneys are in bad shape it might help lighten the load on them. Especially since they're pumping her full of meds. Again, keep your head up and stay positive. You will get through this together

highwaystar22 · 02-16-2011, 02:56 PM

My thoughts and prayers go out to you man. Stay strong and I hope she pulls through. G-d always has a was to sort it, even though we don't see the full plan.

ms!3 · 02-16-2011, 03:01 PM

prayer goes out to you man. sorry you have to go through this

deedilus · 02-16-2011, 03:12 PM

All my prayers go out to you and your fiancee. I hope she pulls through this.

TurboSE · 02-16-2011, 04:12 PM

I forgot to mention, they are discussing the idea of dialysis...I'm not sure if they have decided to go through with it or not. I think she should be on it as well.

We are both grateful for the thoughts and prayers of all the members of Zilvia and we would like to thank you and wish the best to you and your families as well.

dsastr_clan · 02-16-2011, 04:20 PM

GOOD VIBES FROM SLC-UTAH BRO, hope the best for you two

02-15-2011, 03:04 PM	#63
TurboSE Zilvia Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Hanover Pa Posts: 740 Trader Rating: (15) Feedback Score: 15 reviews	Many more thanks, the support you've all showed is overwhelming. There hasn't been much change in her condition. The Dr's told her today that they'd like to operate on what might be abscesses at the point of her surgery. The downside is, they have anesthetize her and with a fever hovering around 104* she might not wake up. The flip side is that they put her on a central line to help get the medicine to her more quickly so her fever doesn't burn it up. However, she is already having heart and kidney issues and depending on the effectiveness of the meds, her condition could continue to worsen. We're doing a lot of soul searching, trying to figure out which way to go on this decision. __________________ WTB: PAIR 18x10 0 to -25, less than $1500 shipped please.

02-15-2011, 03:25 PM	#67
spinitsidewayz Leaky Injector Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Pearl Harbor, Hawaii Posts: 101 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Stay strong bro. Best wishes to both of you. __________________ Love: 89 S13 Fastback: Super stock KA24E Daily! Hate: 89 S13 Coupe: SR20 Under the knife. 87 FC: Half Bridge Turbo Monster.

02-15-2011, 09:08 PM	#70
Tokona-x Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: 909 Posts: 1,298 Trader Rating: (140) Feedback Score: 140 reviews	Keep your head up man I wish best for both of you and you both will be in my prayers. __________________ I have five speed bolts if you need any Custom 2+2 E brake Cable brackets sold here!!!!!

02-16-2011, 12:16 AM	#75
cesar_240 Leaky Injector Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SOUL CAL Age: 33 Posts: 62 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	I'll have you guys in my prayers __________________ Are you not entertained?!

02-16-2011, 12:37 AM	#77
Teddy Post Whore! Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: AutoFactory REALIZE Posts: 5,213 Trader Rating: (44) Feedback Score: 44 reviews	Prayers to both of you, I truly truly hope she recovers quickly. __________________ www.realize-jp.net

02-15-2011, 02:03 PM	#61
spooled240 Post Whore! Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 4,203 Trader Rating: (27) Feedback Score: 27 reviews	i wish the best for you guys Fighting illness is a mental game as well as body so stay positive!

02-15-2011, 02:11 PM	#62
rbpwr Leaky Injector Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: buffalo new york Posts: 51 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	i have no clue as to who you are, but through the body of christ were all brothers. my prayers go out to you and youre family.

02-15-2011, 03:15 PM	#64
jodett Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Saskatoon Posts: 40 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Don't give up. I'll be praying for the both of you, and that god will give the doctors wisdom in their operation. stay strong.

02-15-2011, 03:17 PM	#65
azndoc Post Whore! Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Los Angeles Age: 42 Posts: 9,487 Trader Rating: (47) Rides Gallery: azndoc Feedback Score: 47 reviews	Good luck and my prayer goes out to her and to a fast recovery.

02-15-2011, 03:26 PM	#68
Audio Puppet Zilvia Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: south gate Age: 39 Posts: 256 Trader Rating: (6) Feedback Score: 6 reviews	Dude i wish you and her the best. When she recovers send us invites to your weeding.

02-15-2011, 05:28 PM	#69
cardoza Zilvia Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: OKC Age: 35 Posts: 276 Trader Rating: (2) Feedback Score: 2 reviews	Wishing the absolute best of luck to you and her. Just encourage her to keep fighting and to be strong and that will mean the world to her. Definitely will keep you and her in my thoughts and prayers.

02-15-2011, 09:47 PM	#72
onehundredoctane Post Whore! Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Greensborough, NC Posts: 2,783 Trader Rating: (3) Feedback Score: 3 reviews	Painful news to hear about a loved one. Have they put her on dialysis at all? You, your fiancée, and family are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that you get to post up some good news soon!

02-15-2011, 10:20 PM	#73
speeddream Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: los angeles Age: 40 Posts: 399 Trader Rating: (3) Feedback Score: 3 reviews	I hope your fiance gets better from this point on. Your situation is very unfortunate, but if the sun is not shinning in your area, we will blow all the clouds from the sky so it can shine down upon the both of you. Like other people have mentioned already stay strong and positive brotha. She will get better.

02-16-2011, 12:00 AM	#74
tqstarburst Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Texas Age: 32 Posts: 1,314 Trader Rating: (2) Feedback Score: 2 reviews	Don't let anything get to you man. No negative thoughts at all. God will know what's best.. Once april hits here send all zilvians and invitation to your wedding brotha! That be one sick s-chassis wedding!

02-16-2011, 12:23 AM	#76
itwillboost Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: new jersey Age: 35 Posts: 410 Trader Rating: (4) Feedback Score: 4 reviews	I will pray for you guys, I hope for the best.

02-16-2011, 12:57 AM	#79
uraznfriend Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Pacifica Posts: 403 Trader Rating: (6) Feedback Score: 6 reviews	My thoughts are with you and your fiancee i cant even imagine what your going through i hope she recovers from this __________________

02-16-2011, 01:11 AM	#80
Marcus Nissanaholic! Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: San Diego Age: 36 Posts: 2,087 Trader Rating: (18) Feedback Score: 18 reviews	You have my prayers. best of luck to you two

02-16-2011, 04:53 AM	#81
Devius Zilvia Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Pineville Louisiana Age: 36 Posts: 174 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Best of luck to you both

02-16-2011, 08:51 AM	#82
Zach-sr Leaky Injector Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Greeneville, TN Age: 34 Posts: 98 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Best of luck to you both. I couldn't imagine going through this myself. __________________

02-16-2011, 02:10 PM	#83
TurboSE Zilvia Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Hanover Pa Posts: 740 Trader Rating: (15) Feedback Score: 15 reviews	Well, we decided to wait and see if the new meds made any difference and possibly have the surgery this afternoon. She was informed by the dr. this morning that her kidneys are in bad shape and that combined with her fever makes the surgery too risky. So now we're putting our faith and hopes in the antibiotics. She's having a hard time staying positive with the seemingly endless stream of bad news. Your thoughts and prayers mean the world to us both...please keep us in them as we push through these dark times. __________________ WTB: PAIR 18x10 0 to -25, less than $1500 shipped please.

02-16-2011, 02:28 PM	#84
Tempo Zilvia Addict Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 957 Trader Rating: (39) Feedback Score: 39 reviews	a prayer and best wishes to you man, hope she gets well and you two live a long happy life. __________________ IG - allen.kerose

02-16-2011, 02:56 PM	#86
highwaystar22 Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Jacksonville, FL Age: 40 Posts: 347 Trader Rating: (4) Feedback Score: 4 reviews	My thoughts and prayers go out to you man. Stay strong and I hope she pulls through. G-d always has a was to sort it, even though we don't see the full plan.

02-16-2011, 03:01 PM	#87
ms!3 Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: USA Age: 34 Posts: 1,563 Trader Rating: (7) Feedback Score: 7 reviews	prayer goes out to you man. sorry you have to go through this

02-16-2011, 03:12 PM	#88
deedilus Leaky Injector Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Richmond, VA Posts: 103 Trader Rating: (5) Feedback Score: 5 reviews	All my prayers go out to you and your fiancee. I hope she pulls through this. __________________ i like chicken nuggets

02-16-2011, 04:12 PM	#89
TurboSE Zilvia Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Hanover Pa Posts: 740 Trader Rating: (15) Feedback Score: 15 reviews	I forgot to mention, they are discussing the idea of dialysis...I'm not sure if they have decided to go through with it or not. I think she should be on it as well. We are both grateful for the thoughts and prayers of all the members of Zilvia and we would like to thank you and wish the best to you and your families as well. __________________ WTB: PAIR 18x10 0 to -25, less than $1500 shipped please.

02-16-2011, 04:20 PM	#90
dsastr_clan Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: utah Posts: 405 Trader Rating: (10) Feedback Score: 10 reviews	GOOD VIBES FROM SLC-UTAH BRO, hope the best for you two