blowing egi relays

[Black Dawg]

First off I have a 92 240sx with a stock ka24de. Early in June my car stopped starting. It would crank but wouldn't turn over. After reading a couple of posts on here I swapped the egi pump relay and the egi relay. The car started fine. After I drove the car around the block and turned it off again it started doing the same thing. I bought a new relay and same thing. The fuses are fine too. Can anyone on here please help walk me through anything else that I can test? Also all of the gauges stopped working around the same time. Thanks in advance.

[Black Dawg]

So I went and did all the checks in this thread:

http://www.zilvia.net/f/tech-talk/108545-how-diagnose-malfunctioning-fuel-pump-system.html

and everything checks out. Theres continuity and voltage but the relay still go out after the car shuts out. Can anyone help out on this or does anyone have any other things that I should check?

Or should I just do what the guy in this thread did:

http://zilvia.net/f/engine-tech/184388-fuel-pump-woes.html

and do I just follow the directions on here:

http://zilvia.net/f/tech-talk/193996-quick-12v-fuel-pump-mod-question-w-diagram.html

to rewire it? Thanks in advance.
I'm at a loss on what else to do.