Whelp after checking my harness over and over. I looked up my ecu # and it turned out to be a rb25de ecu. Ecu number was p7 / 23710 23u02 / mec-r542 / a1 / 4930 . Anyone that needs to look an ecu number I found some good info on this site
http://www.rbparts.co.nz/page/342746?showMobileSite=1