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Old 02-12-2012, 07:44 AM   #1
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How To Approach This Chick?

I work at a bank, this cute girl comes in and I'm helping her out with her banking problems. So we start talking and making jokes. I have to update her profile so I start asking her all these questions and she just answers them no problem.

We finish everything and she leaves. So I look her up on facebook (shes single), and it seems when she was sitting in my office she posted that I was cute. Im thinking I should put on the mack, but I dont want to seem stalker-ish. How should I begin my approach fellas?
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I dont want to seem stalker-ish.
Too late for that, clearly.
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...I start asking her all these questions... ...So I look her up on facebook...
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Its a little late for it but u should just tell her
"I'm not telling you this to impress you or anything, but I'm Batman"

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Too late for that, clearly.
Hahaha.

edit: And OP, while you were asking her questions updating her profile, your last question should have been, "So what time should I pick you up on Saturday?"

Boom.
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Old 02-12-2012, 09:55 AM   #5
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Too late, if you want to avoid looking like a stalker, you have to wait until you comes in next time.

Killer pretty much has the best pickup if you were helping her. Other than that, you have to just compliment her a bit and then ask her out. I just hope you doesn't have a facebook app that lets her see who last visited her, haha
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Eye contact is a big deal. You MUST wait til she comes back. If you reach out to her it will appear stalker'ish for sure. She may even accuse you of looking thru her personal info which is illegal.

She comes back, make eye contact, crack some jokes then lead into something not in her profile at the bank. As in what des she like to do in her free time. Regardless what she says agree lol. Then lead into something where it would be an easy out for her to say no. Typically if you make a girl laugh and non threatened you have a good chance to see her again. This is usually the approach I take unless you can tell she likes "to the point, skip dinner and lets get it on". Those are not the norm in my area.
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kill yourself that way she will feel bad that she never got to date you.....next time she wnt beat around the bush and straightup ask you to get down and dirty

JK Just say to yourself fuck it.. come off as a stalker but let her know she was worth the risk of you getting called that by her. Why well because whats the probability she will come inside again? few months? maybe when its not even your shift? not worth losing what potentially could be yours. Take the risk be a man
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Then again....you'll look like a serious stalker lol
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should have asked her for coffee.
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Next time she comes in ask her on a date, if she says no just steal her idenity.
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oh no you remembered her name and looked her up on facebook...fucking message her already before you really start to stalk her
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Old 02-12-2012, 12:35 PM   #13
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oh no you remembered her name and looked her up on facebook...fucking message her already before you really start to stalk her
haha too late.
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if you just want to hook up, wait for her to come back. if you think she's "the one" go to her.
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Too late for that, clearly.
hahahahahah kilt it
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On a scale of 1-5 how bad do you wanna ask her? 4-5 fuck it message her, opportunity may never arise again. Anything below 4 wait I guess..
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sack up and just ask. its not that hard. if you never ask, the answer will always be no
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Its a little late for it but u should just tell her
"I'm not telling you this to impress you or anything, but I'm Batman"

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I work at a bank too and I have done and used a couple methods but I am going to use this lol

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Like already said, you're best bet is to wait for her to come back. That will probably not happen for a loooooooong time.

Or you can hit her up in FB since you already looked her up. One of two things will happen, she's either gonna be cool about it or she's gonna get freaked the fuck out. If she gets freaked the fuck out, 2 possible scenario can happen. She can either ignore you and nothing happens or she can make a big enough fuss about it and report you to your work for being unprofessional, blah blah blah...
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Old 02-12-2012, 02:15 PM   #22
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message her on fb saying u found something and u were wondering if it was hers.

u stay somewhat professional, have an introduction, and she has to reply to that. what happens next is up to how much game u have
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message her on fb saying u found something and u were wondering if it was hers.

u stay somewhat professional, have an introduction, and she has to reply to that. what happens next is up to how much game u have
terrible idea. What could he have found that could plausibly even be hers? He's still messaging her on FB, which is extremely stalkerish.
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lol whats her name..ill hit her up for you.

but i think you should wait until she comes back.. Obviously she will be in at some point. Thats where her moneyzz be.
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man up and just ask her out. women like guys with confidence.

only hitch is that you work with her...that could be no bueno in the future
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man up and just ask her out. women like guys with confidence.

only hitch is that you work with her...that could be no bueno in the future
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Tell her some bullshit about a credit card offer or something and she if she wants to sign up or discuss it. My banker is always callin me buggin me about some new bullshit they wanna rope me in on. Or wate forever till she comes in again.

DO NOT HIT HER UP ON FACEBOOK. Shell think your a creep and or you'll neve see her in that bank again and if u do and she ignored you on there it'll b weird and akward and you'll probably cry and then freak out like that kid whose mom took his WOW account down and instead of trying to jam a remote in your ass you'll kill everyone in the bank and then yourself or be gunned down by cops later... Lol
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