The Relationships Thread

[AkademikONE]

In this thread, you can ask questions regarding anything to do with
relationships, whether it be your own, or whatever. How to end one,
how to start one, how to salvage one, etc. Anything on your mind,
any questions you may have, ask. Love, sex, romance, anything.
You will get opinions from both a man's point of view, as well as a
woman's.

Be patient with your questions, as I get busy at times. I'll answer everyone's
questions in a timely manner.

I don't claim myself as an expert in this, but I have had my share of
experience, whether good or bad. Same with the people mentioned above.

[color="purple"][b]Please don't post useless information, or get off-topic, if you do, that's all
on you.

IF YOU'RE LOOKING MORE INTO GETTING LAID, OR STRAIGHT UP
HOW TO PICK UP WOMEN, THIS ISN'T THE THREAD. HERE'S A LINK
TO THAT THREAD.

Now, onto the questions!

[WERDdabuilder]

oh man. im going to have fun with this one.

lets get the dice rollin.

[SoguRacing]

definitely will be a fun thread

[Bobafreak]

hahahahaaha add stiiz!

[Tearlessj]

Aight i'll start, me and my gf have had some issues. Now when we try to spend time with each other, we worry too much about what each other thinks. She says she feels weak, scared to say something wrong. Blah blah

Now how do I get it back to normal?

[SoguRacing]

i take it we should keep this serious. you guys should talk it through. seeing that you're 16.."if that is your actual age" it's a maturity issue. young guns

[Bobafreak]

this is like love line. lol dr drew, adam corolla kaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyy
roooooooooooooooooooooooocckkkkkk!

[Tearlessj]

We've been on and off since I was a freshman, Now a senior. So its pretty serious, I surely wouldn't want to break it off anytime soon.

btw I turn 17 in September, im just one of the younger ones. lol

[BOROSUN]

what kind of issues?

this what dr drew would say...
Teen relationships typically don't last long because as a teen, we're undecisive, not fully mature yet, and not really sure about things. Usually, the teen might feel he or she is in love when really, it's puppy love. Teen relationships are like pre-relationships, relationships that get you ready for true, fully committed relationships that he or she might have as they get older.
Most if not all are childish since neither party really seems to know what they want. It is usually a fun type of relationship based on sexual attraction and then either party may want others and will not be able to sit and commit.

[WERDdabuilder]

Originally Posted by Tearlessj

Aight i'll start, me and my gf have had some issues. Now when we try to spend time with each other, we worry too much about what each other thinks. She says she feels weak, scared to say something wrong. Blah blah

Now how do I get it back to normal?

when did this all start? did she/you cheat? is there a reason why you guys are worried about what each other are thinking? we need a little more info.

both your ages will play a huge role in it.

[AkademikONE]

Originally Posted by Tearlessj

Aight i'll start, me and my gf have had some issues. Now when we try to spend time with each other, we worry too much about what each other thinks. She says she feels weak, scared to say something wrong. Blah blah

Now how do I get it back to normal?

I'm going to just flat out say this, and don't hate me
for it. High-school relationships are a joke. 9 out of 10
times, they break it off. That "high-school sweet-heart"
is a bunch of BS. Yes, some of them actually do get married,
but most don't last too long. Like that quote up there, young
people are too indecisive, not fully matured, and still don't
know what they want out of a relationship. It's more of a
status thing to have a bf/gf in high-school, in my opinion.
Don't think too much on it. You're only 16. You will have PLENTY
more girlfriends in the future. Trust me. I know it seems pretty
fucked up what I'm saying, but I see it all too much. These
high-school lovers put too much effort and "love" into their
relationships, only to get heartbroken later. Well, I guess that's
how people learn and mature, through things like this. I know I
did.

But, to answer your question, have a serious talk with her and
just straight out ask her why she feels that way. You're her bf,
so she can feel safe in telling you what she's feeling. Maybe she's
going through some hard times?

[Boostin on you]

what do I do when my boyfriend wants my balls to enter his ass but the wont fit?

[AkademikONE]

Originally Posted by Boostin on you

what do I do when my boyfriend wants my balls to enter his ass but the wont fit?

I'm not an expert on gay relationships, so can't
help you out with that, buddy.

This forum is for you.

Oh ya, judging by your PM to me the other day which
said...

Originally Posted by PM from boostin_on_you

Ye you kno your a faggot who wants my cock

...your question might be a real one.

[ESmorz]

Originally Posted by Tearlessj

Aight i'll start, me and my gf have had some issues. Now when we try to spend time with each other, we worry too much about what each other thinks. She says she feels weak, scared to say something wrong. Blah blah

Now how do I get it back to normal?

Break it off.

Don't spend your high school years in a relationship, I spent a year and a half of mine in one and I DEFINITELY regret it. Akademik is right high school relationships are bull shit. They will get you nowhere. It's like jerking off with no intention of finishing.

Find a new girl especially if she has issues. Don't make your life any harder than it has to be.

[beeracing s14]

get real advises from tom leykis 97.1fm from 3pm-8pm

[AkademikONE]

I listen to Leykis all the time, but he gets kind of
boring. His topics are usually about the same thing,
day in and day out.

Leykis 101
-never get married
-never have children
-fuck as many girls as you can

[WERDdabuilder]

^thats how i live my life!!!!

fuck bitches get money.

honestly in high school/college you shouldnt be spending your time having a gf. spend that time with studies and whatnot. college...the biggest poon supply shop, get them while they run wild.

im selfish and i think its ok. dont need to waste time/money on them. and this goes for chicks also. ride em and leave em.

[chrisa]

ok so here's my question...i was like dating/talking to this girl. i fucked her and now she is just annoying and i dont like her at all anymore. how do i let her down easy? and thats the second girl thats happened to me with. she is still a cool chick but i'm just not into her AT ALL anymore.

[ESmorz]

Originally Posted by chrisa

ok so here's my question...i was like dating/talking to this girl. i fucked her and now she is just annoying and i dont like her at all anymore. how do i let her down easy? and thats the second girl thats happened to me with. she is still a cool chick but i'm just not into her AT ALL anymore.

Used to happen to me all the time I start to like a girl and they are really cool and after I do em they either get kind of annoying or I lose all respect for them lol.

Easiest way to let her down is to just be straight up with her. It may suck, she may cry, man up do what you gotta do.

[chrisa]

i didnt loose respect for her but she is for sure annoying now...just gotta man up huh.

[90hatchie]

dont have a 3 sum with ur gf and her best friend
it will screw everything up

i made that mistake and now im alone

[24Ochick<3]

Originally Posted by 90hatchie

dont have a 3 sum with ur gf and her best friend
it will screw everything up

i made that mistake and now im alone

did she turn les? or did she end up throwing it in your face in the end? females can be lame like that tho. everythings okay when your in the moment, but when things get rough in the relationship; they like to use it against the guy. idk, girls are complicated. if she doesn't come back, fuck it.. its her loss right? jus continue to live life for your own satisfaction. "YOU" comes first before anyone elses happiness. that goes for both male and female but if you really love her, try to make it work. try to forget, learn, and move forward... good luck man!

[theronin]

Originally Posted by 90hatchie

dont have a 3 sum with ur gf and her best friend
it will screw everything up

i made that mistake and now im alone

i thought this was a given? if youre going to have a 3 some its gotta be with 2 random girls. it NEVER ends well if you have a 3 way with someone u are in a relationship with. jealousy, mistrust, and a whole shit ton of drama is the only thing that can come of it.

[98s14inaz]

Originally Posted by ESmorz

Break it off.

Don't spend your high school years in a relationship, I spent a year and a half of mine in one and I DEFINITELY regret it. Akademik is right high school relationships are bull shit. They will get you nowhere. It's like jerking off with no intention of finishing.

Find a new girl especially if she has issues. Don't make your life any harder than it has to be.

Well put. At the risk of sounding like a dick she will make you miserable because she has no clue what the fuck she wants (i've been there). What she wants, the second the first penis enters her body, is to fuck lots of mister wrongs until she meets who she settles on.

In reality it's not even about meeting the right guy, it has more to do with timing and when she is tired of screwing around. High School relationships are disposable, you should be perfecting your technique with numerous partners (protected of course), that way when you get to college you'll know what your doing and have a great time.

[90hatchie]

Originally Posted by theronin

i thought this was a given? if youre going to have a 3 some its gotta be with 2 random girls. it NEVER ends well if you have a 3 way with someone u are in a relationship with. jealousy, mistrust, and a whole shit ton of drama is the only thing that can come of it.

yea now i realized it
she kept thinking i was going around with other girls and part of me thought she was going around with other guys
whole thing collapsed on itself
2 years down the drain
dosnt matter now
im over it
live and learn

[scweet1]

Originally Posted by ESmorz

Break it off.

Don't spend your high school years in a relationship, I spent a year and a half of mine in one and I DEFINITELY regret it. Akademik is right high school relationships are bull shit. They will get you nowhere. It's like jerking off with no intention of finishing..

I am going to have to agree with you. If I could go back in time (in a delorean, of course) I would have never bothered with girls in high school. I got married right after high school (no kids, thank God), lived like I was in a prison because she was a year or two older so she called shot. Man, I envied all the kids that were my age doing their thing and I was playing the adult roll being married and working.....

I got divorced about 6 years ago... lol. true story.

Focus in school, there will be many many many girls later down the line.

[aziankingz]

Originally Posted by 90hatchie

yea now i realized it
she kept thinking i was going around with other girls and part of me thought she was going around with other guys
whole thing collapsed on itself
2 years down the drain
dosnt matter now
im over it
live and learn

you had a threesome with another guy?

[S13_Nightkid]

Originally Posted by theronin

i thought this was a given? if youre going to have a 3 some its gotta be with 2 random girls. it NEVER ends well if you have a 3 way with someone u are in a relationship with. jealousy, mistrust, and a whole shit ton of drama is the only thing that can come of it.

WTF? how would the chick thats in a relationship w/ you let that shit fly?