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*Xbroke_kidX* · 03-18-2009, 07:55 PM

oh yeah i totally forgot about the fact she had a boyfriend.
drop her, shes just another dumb girl looking to make some drama

makoman11 · 03-19-2009, 11:43 AM

All right, thanks. problem solved.

*downshift_sideways* · 08-20-2009, 06:16 PM

bummpppppppppp!!!

Enna · 08-20-2009, 10:13 PM

OH SHIT. Hella lol.

Monti · 10-12-2009, 07:30 PM

ok i have a question...im 17 in high school and i automatically assume the girls in my school are going to deny me like i dont have a chance idk if its lack of self confidence or what... but i once i actually know a person is when my confidence kicks in i feel uncomfortable to go to a girl i dont know and generate a conversation out of thin air... i do have the humor thing going for me I'm something of a comic, i always here someone say girls love a guy that can make a girl laugh, then why is my game lacking? i want to be able to approach a girl at random and not feel wierd about it and its something i tell myself im going to work on but never do =/

help me?

coww-cho!!!!! · 10-12-2009, 07:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Monti

ok i have a question...im 17 in high school and i automatically assume the girls in my school are going to deny me like i dont have a chance idk if its lack of self confidence or what... but i once i actually know a person is when my confidence kicks in i feel uncomfortable to go to a girl i dont know and generate a conversation out of thin air... i do have the humor thing going for me I'm something of a comic, i always here someone say girls love a guy that can make a girl laugh, then why is my game lacking? i want to be able to approach a girl at random and not feel wierd about it and its something i tell myself im going to work on but never do =/

help me?

one thing that helped me a lot and might help you is to get a job where you are demanded to talk to customers whether there ugly,hot,pretty,cute , old young.etc

i worked at a indoor go kart track and i had to brief the drivers on how to drive the go karts and sometimes i would have to do one on one briefing which really improved on my social skills because afterward they would just want to talk rather than race and things would lead to another lol

and also you get to talk to co workers and most of the time they invite you to there parties so just get comfortable in a work enviorment then take it to school hope this helps

Monti · 10-12-2009, 07:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by coww-cho!!!!!

one thing that helped me a lot and might help you is to get a job where you are demanded to talk to customers whether there ugly,hot,pretty,cute , old young.etc

i worked at a indoor go kart track and i had to brief the drivers on how to drive the go karts and sometimes i would have to do one on one briefing which really improved on my social skills because afterward they would just want to talk rather than race and things would lead to another lol

and also you get to talk to co workers and most of the time they invite you to there parties so just get comfortable in a work enviorment then take it to school hope this helps

if only getting a job was easy lol, but yea that is a great idea which i will follow up upon if and when i have a job lol

ESmorz · 10-12-2009, 08:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Monti

ok i have a question...im 17 in high school and i automatically assume the girls in my school are going to deny me like i dont have a chance idk if its lack of self confidence or what... but i once i actually know a person is when my confidence kicks in i feel uncomfortable to go to a girl i dont know and generate a conversation out of thin air... i do have the humor thing going for me I'm something of a comic, i always here someone say girls love a guy that can make a girl laugh, then why is my game lacking? i want to be able to approach a girl at random and not feel wierd about it and its something i tell myself im going to work on but never do =/

help me?

Just nut up. The honest to goodness truth is that the worst thing that can happen is they aren't interested in you. No biggy there are probably a thousand other girls at your school.

You can't catch any fish if you never cast your line homeslice, unless you're incredibly good-looking. So either get used to having to talk to people ,or get used to the fact that you're going to die old, fat, and alone. The cats and dogs don't count.

Monti · 10-12-2009, 09:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ESmorz

Just nut up. The honest to goodness truth is that the worst thing that can happen is they aren't interested in you. No biggy there are probably a thousand other girls at your school.

You can't catch any fish if you never cast your line homeslice, unless you're incredibly good-looking. So either get used to having to talk to people ,or get used to the fact that you're going to die old, fat, and alone. The cats and dogs don't count.

lol yea love the way you worded it but yea i know i need to "nut up" its something im trying to improve, its not the rejection im worried about its just that i usually dont know what to say if i just randomly go up to a girl and try to spark a conversation...

*theronin* · 10-12-2009, 10:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Monti

ok i have a question...im 17 in high school and i automatically assume the girls in my school are going to deny me like i dont have a chance idk if its lack of self confidence or what... but i once i actually know a person is when my confidence kicks in i feel uncomfortable to go to a girl i dont know and generate a conversation out of thin air... i do have the humor thing going for me I'm something of a comic, i always here someone say girls love a guy that can make a girl laugh, then why is my game lacking? i want to be able to approach a girl at random and not feel wierd about it and its something i tell myself im going to work on but never do =/

help me?

easy way to make a girl laugh.

you: excuse me, do you know what polar bears are good for?

her: um, no. what?

you: for breaking the ice. hi, i'm (insert name here)

should get a chuckle out of her.

or, if you know her name, or even don't know her name, look right at her and call her any other girls name. most girls will walk up and say, uh, thats not my name i'm so n so. done and done. you just got her to approach you and give you her name.

*downshift_sideways* · 11-01-2009, 04:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Monti

ok i have a question...im 17 in high school and i automatically assume the girls in my school are going to deny me like i dont have a chance idk if its lack of self confidence or what... but i once i actually know a person is when my confidence kicks in i feel uncomfortable to go to a girl i dont know and generate a conversation out of thin air... i do have the humor thing going for me I'm something of a comic, i always here someone say girls love a guy that can make a girl laugh, then why is my game lacking? i want to be able to approach a girl at random and not feel wierd about it and its something i tell myself im going to work on but never do =/

help me?

You just answered yourself.

Engaging in a conversation with the opposite sex takes time to learn in your situation. You seem very insecure with your communication skills and have low self-esteem due to your insecurities.

As "coww-cho!!!!!" said...Put yourself in an environment where you are most likely prone to talking to the opposite sex. School is honestly the best place to learn how to engage in a conversation with different types of women. This is your ground zero. Take advantage of the fact that you actually have something in common with the hundreds of girls in your school. Believe me if you continue with your self pity you will become a late bloomer and it will be even harder for you to cope with women in the near future.

You seem to have the ability to make people laugh. Use that as your weapon. Take in consideration there are others out there that do not have the talent to do so. Making girls laugh is always fun. They become more than an acquaintance after awhile.

So brush your shoulders off. Were giving you the tools needed to succeed.
Now go out there and update us!

palmdale_mob · 11-01-2009, 04:54 PM

Monti, read this The Confidence Thread - Bodybuilding.com Forums

Its pretty much a thread where this guy writes all his experiences with girls

Its addicting after a story or two, and I felt much more confident after reading it for some reason

I recommend anyone who has some spare time to check this out

SuicidnS13 · 11-01-2009, 05:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by palmdale_mob

Monti, read this The Confidence Thread - Bodybuilding.com Forums

Its pretty much a thread where this guy writes all his experiences with girls

Its addicting after a story or two, and I felt much more confident after reading it for some reason

I recommend anyone who has some spare time to check this out

Amazing thread to read...definately worth a few hours-

This thread definately has information 10x more usefull than anything else posted on the zilvia thread!

Bubbles · 11-01-2009, 06:48 PM

A confidence thread on a bodybuilding forum?

Seems ironic.

HAWKKS · 11-01-2009, 08:04 PM

Ok! New to this college, I know no one...ok few but only GUYS in my program (Mechanical Engineering) and let me tell you....we don't have girls in our classes! So here's my problem how the heck I can build a social network...or even start something with any girls when you have no friends here? I mean it'll be so needdy to be always with the person you just meet!

SuicidnS13 · 11-02-2009, 10:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HAWKKS

Ok! New to this college, I know no one...ok few but only GUYS in my program (Mechanical Engineering) and let me tell you....we don't have girls in our classes! So here's my problem how the heck I can build a social network...or even start something with any girls when you have no friends here? I mean it'll be so needdy to be always with the person you just meet!

There are two ways to build a social network in a short amount of time.

1. Be the new social network by throwing amazing parties (keggers).
2. Start going to parties and getting to know as many people as you can.

My degree is in economics. How funny that after throwing parties all of highschool and college I ended up being a Professional Events Coordinator/Promoter for years. Atleast untill I met my special someone and had my child with her. (had to grow up real fast then and had to drop all the cocktail girls and gogo dancers)

keistyle · 11-02-2009, 10:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HAWKKS

Ok! New to this college, I know no one...ok few but only GUYS in my program (Mechanical Engineering) and let me tell you....we don't have girls in our classes! So here's my problem how the heck I can build a social network...or even start something with any girls when you have no friends here? I mean it'll be so needdy to be always with the person you just meet!

Make some good friends in that class, maybe they have women alliances.

Soooshi · 11-02-2009, 10:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by keistyle

Make some good friends in that class, maybe they have women alliances.

Or horde comrads.

Ugly hordies always travel with good looking womenz so the good looking feel better about themselves.

Seriously, make friends in class.

DrFtKiNg240sxy · 11-02-2009, 05:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by palmdale_mob

Monti, read this The Confidence Thread - Bodybuilding.com Forums

Its pretty much a thread where this guy writes all his experiences with girls

Its addicting after a story or two, and I felt much more confident after reading it for some reason

I recommend anyone who has some spare time to check this out

I seriously wasted a good 5 hours reading this lastnight and Im still not done (no homo)

His stories remind me of Tucker Max's "I hope they serve beer in hell," both of which are equally pretty interesting to read

Genovese.Jr · 11-02-2009, 06:33 PM

thers one step to getting and keeping a hot chick treat em like shit seriousley try it

HyperTek · 11-08-2009, 11:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Genovese.Jr

thers one step to getting and keeping a hot chick treat em like shit seriousley try it

sadly thats true.. once you show em emotion too soon, they bounce.. you gotta stay mysterious

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Nothing wrong with a lil self improvement

some old hs girls invited me for dinner, i didnt go, id feel depressed. the girls from hs let themselves go fast lol. only a handful still look good . All you guys still in hs, dont sweat it lol

palmdale_mob · 11-09-2009, 12:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrFtKiNg240sxy

I seriously wasted a good 5 hours reading this lastnight and Im still not done (no homo)

If this guy was to write a novel I would buy it

I read the whole thing in a week, its addicting, guy has lived an interesting life to say the least

Soooshi · 11-09-2009, 01:43 AM

Confidence.

Its all you need.

Think about this. If you're at a bar, who knows you? Not many. Its the rare chance you get to reinvent yourself. Any random encounter, reinvent yourself. Seriously.

You will never see those broads again, and if you do, you get to explain why you did what you did over breakfast.

Its the one time you can be who the fuck ever you want. "I'm an engineering student attending Cal Poly ATM." or "Yea, I actually do ________. Coincidence, right?"

I used to do it for shits, but it did allow me to find that outgoing side of me.

Also, Robert Glover's No More Mr.NiceGuy. Read it. ALOUD.

*bardabe* · 11-09-2009, 01:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by palmdale_mob

Monti, read this The Confidence Thread - Bodybuilding.com Forums

Its pretty much a thread where this guy writes all his experiences with girls

Its addicting after a story or two, and I felt much more confident after reading it for some reason

I recommend anyone who has some spare time to check this out

that guy needs to write a fuckin book

HyperTek · 11-09-2009, 07:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Soooshi

Confidence.

Its all you need.

Think about this. If you're at a bar, who knows you? Not many. Its the rare chance you get to reinvent yourself. Any random encounter, reinvent yourself. Seriously.

You will never see those broads again, and if you do, you get to explain why you did what you did over breakfast.

Its the one time you can be who the fuck ever you want. "I'm an engineering student attending Cal Poly ATM." or "Yea, I actually do ________. Coincidence, right?"

I used to do it for shits, but it did allow me to find that outgoing side of me.

Also, Robert Glover's No More Mr.NiceGuy. Read it. ALOUD.

jus dont actually lie, you can game without lying too much lol

Soooshi · 11-09-2009, 08:05 AM

Hypie, agreed.

Small bends in the truth don't hurt.

Solong as you can step outta your shoes for a bit and stretch your 'out of the element' wings.

HyperTek · 11-11-2009, 12:24 AM

so whats your guys take on girls who dont have female friends/all guy friends?

From my experience, these are the girls who are unstable, and have some sort of problem. They dont realize that the guy friends are just there in hopes to change of fate score. But more then likely fall into teh friend zone while some thugish dude whos going to jail and doesnt give a fuck gets their attention

I had this happen b4, and i dunno why i let it happen again. =\

xBtony · 11-11-2009, 01:11 AM

Cant believe im posting in this thread..haha! OH well.

SO i've been diggin this chick fer a while. and been tryin to set shit up with her and she is always "busy" And the other day i was like hey. i wanna spend more time with u. lets chill. she says "Well now is as good of a time as any to tell u i know u like me and i have no feeling for u at all" Any recovery from that onE? Or just let it go. lol

*Kamburrito* · 11-11-2009, 02:50 AM

let her go and get yours.

DrFtKiNg240sxy · 11-11-2009, 04:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xBtony

Cant believe im posting in this thread..haha! OH well.

SO i've been diggin this chick fer a while. and been tryin to set shit up with her and she is always "busy" And the other day i was like hey. i wanna spend more time with u. lets chill. she says "Well now is as good of a time as any to tell u i know u like me and i have no feeling for u at all" Any recovery from that onE? Or just let it go. lol

hahahaaha. sorry

08-20-2009, 06:16 PM	#513
downshift_sideways No Limit Soldier. Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Hayward CA, San Gabriel CA Age: 23 Posts: 5,516 Trader Rating: (0) Rides Gallery: downshift_sideways	bummpppppppppp!!! __________________ allntrlundrgrnd: "you never really appreciate your parents fridge until you look into your own and its full of condiments only"

08-20-2009, 10:13 PM	#514
Enna Zilvia Addict Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: LV, NV Age: 23 Posts: 750 Trader Rating: (3)	OH SHIT. Hella lol. __________________ S14 Kouki - any wiring guru's coming to vegas?

11-01-2009, 04:54 PM	#522
palmdale_mob Zilvia Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: CA Age: 19 Posts: 719 Trader Rating: (9)	Monti, read this The Confidence Thread - Bodybuilding.com Forums Its pretty much a thread where this guy writes all his experiences with girls Its addicting after a story or two, and I felt much more confident after reading it for some reason I recommend anyone who has some spare time to check this out __________________

11-01-2009, 06:48 PM	#524
Bubbles Nissanaholic! Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Midwest Posts: 2,015 Trader Rating: (0)	A confidence thread on a bodybuilding forum? Seems ironic. __________________ Later, boners.

11-09-2009, 01:43 AM	#533
Soooshi Post Whore! Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Pomona, CA (2 houses down from the dead body) Age: 23 Posts: 5,708 Trader Rating: (9) Rides Gallery: Soooshi	Confidence. Its all you need. Think about this. If you're at a bar, who knows you? Not many. Its the rare chance you get to reinvent yourself. Any random encounter, reinvent yourself. Seriously. You will never see those broads again, and if you do, you get to explain why you did what you did over breakfast. Its the one time you can be who the fuck ever you want. "I'm an engineering student attending Cal Poly ATM." or "Yea, I actually do ________. Coincidence, right?" I used to do it for shits, but it did allow me to find that outgoing side of me. Also, Robert Glover's No More Mr.NiceGuy. Read it. ALOUD. __________________ <imgsrc="http://img134.imageshack.us/img134/6123/siggyx.png">

03-18-2009, 07:55 PM	#511
Xbroke_kidX Forever Young Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: SoCal 714 Posts: 604 Trader Rating: (8)	oh yeah i totally forgot about the fact she had a boyfriend. drop her, shes just another dumb girl looking to make some drama

03-19-2009, 11:43 AM	#512
makoman11 Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Georgia Posts: 21 Trader Rating: (0)	All right, thanks. problem solved.

10-12-2009, 07:30 PM	#515
Monti Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: New York Age: 18 Posts: 3 Trader Rating: (0)	ok i have a question...im 17 in high school and i automatically assume the girls in my school are going to deny me like i dont have a chance idk if its lack of self confidence or what... but i once i actually know a person is when my confidence kicks in i feel uncomfortable to go to a girl i dont know and generate a conversation out of thin air... i do have the humor thing going for me I'm something of a comic, i always here someone say girls love a guy that can make a girl laugh, then why is my game lacking? i want to be able to approach a girl at random and not feel wierd about it and its something i tell myself im going to work on but never do =/ help me?

11-01-2009, 08:04 PM	#525
HAWKKS Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Montreal Posts: 19 Trader Rating: (0)	Ok! New to this college, I know no one...ok few but only GUYS in my program (Mechanical Engineering) and let me tell you....we don't have girls in our classes! So here's my problem how the heck I can build a social network...or even start something with any girls when you have no friends here? I mean it'll be so needdy to be always with the person you just meet!

11-02-2009, 06:33 PM	#530
Genovese.Jr Banned from the Marketplace Join Date: May 2009 Location: oc Posts: 243 Trader Rating: (0)	thers one step to getting and keeping a hot chick treat em like shit seriousley try it

11-09-2009, 08:05 AM	#536
Soooshi Post Whore! Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Pomona, CA (2 houses down from the dead body) Age: 23 Posts: 5,708 Trader Rating: (9) Rides Gallery: Soooshi	Hypie, agreed. Small bends in the truth don't hurt. Solong as you can step outta your shoes for a bit and stretch your 'out of the element' wings. __________________ <imgsrc="http://img134.imageshack.us/img134/6123/siggyx.png">

11-11-2009, 12:24 AM	#537
HyperTek Post Whore! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Cali Posts: 10,635 Trader Rating: (0)	so whats your guys take on girls who dont have female friends/all guy friends? From my experience, these are the girls who are unstable, and have some sort of problem. They dont realize that the guy friends are just there in hopes to change of fate score. But more then likely fall into teh friend zone while some thugish dude whos going to jail and doesnt give a fuck gets their attention I had this happen b4, and i dunno why i let it happen again. =\ __________________ relax its just cars

11-11-2009, 01:11 AM	#538
xBtony Zilvia Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: SoCal 661 Posts: 186 Trader Rating: (2)	Cant believe im posting in this thread..haha! OH well. SO i've been diggin this chick fer a while. and been tryin to set shit up with her and she is always "busy" And the other day i was like hey. i wanna spend more time with u. lets chill. she says "Well now is as good of a time as any to tell u i know u like me and i have no feeling for u at all" Any recovery from that onE? Or just let it go. lol

11-11-2009, 02:50 AM	#539
Kamburrito uno Dos Quatro Ocho Taco Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Norwalkians Age: 20 Posts: 1,235 Trader Rating: (10)	let her go and get yours. __________________ Still Hang Drying Clothes On My Cage. *S.P.P.S.* *member#1* <3<3<3

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