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This thread is intended to help those out there that have no game. I know many of you like cars, and computers...and honestly..I think about 60% of you cats. Either have no lifes/Boring lifes/and no game whatsoever (no disrespect) However take in any opinions given in this thread and apply it to your own lifes. I hope you can learn something outta this.
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I also will be adding to this as well. You can have all the advice from another guy, there's plenty of them here, but I will be adding my .02 since after all, a female point of view will get you further into the game. If you'll listen to a fat guy on the radio that's been through 4 marriages, then surely you'll take heed to my advice, as it only took one time for me to be married and hate it before I learned my lesson.
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I personally believe that you have to sit back and watch your target before engaging in a conversation or any kind of interaction. You have to have a good fast thinking mind and you have to be smoooooth during the approach.
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While you guys sit and watch us like hungry hyenas surveying the pack, we're just as aware of you guys. Upon walking into the place, we've already sized up the entire area, and pretty much know what we're walking into. The time it takes for you to size one girl up, we've already broken down every single person in the club.
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Now you can tell a lot about a woman by simply looking at her swag/style or however you wanna call it. I know most of us guys look up and down girls when passing by (at least I hope so) So take in mind everything about it. And NOTICE THE SMALL DETAILS. Such as Eyes, hair color, dimples etc.You also need to play it smart and use the environment around you aswell. Meaning if your in a music store...approach with a music conversation..etc.
BUT to get to this step first. You must feel confident and expect the worse. Everyone gets shot down. I've been shot down hundred of times cold blooded but that's never stopped me.
Now obviously you can't get to know a lady without an approach/pick up line...So you need to say something that INTERESTS her. Or something that will make her LAUGH and feel abit more comfortable.(usually this breaks the ice) If she's not feeling comfortable at all..then most likely she's not going to even look at you and walk away.
Girls like BOLD guys that STAND out I would imagine. Meaning if you have the balls to go up to a GROUP of ladies..and talk to one in particular then that sets you aside than all the hundreds of guys that are in the area, but I'll admit they are more harsh in packs. So keep your "A" game on.
Try not to ask any questions that use a "yes" or a "no" response only because it shortens the time span, and she walks away)
Some people like to use pickup lines. I LOVE TO. Pickup lines are a broken record, but I know for a fact it catches a bit of laughter deep deep deep down inside her awkward look she gives you
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PLEASE don't be creepy about it. While you're studying the target, try to be as ninja-like as possible. You don't wanna come off as a stalker.
Boldness is good, but don't be obnoxious. Nothing is a bigger turn-off than some guy that comes up to you and starts talking loudly, or being all touchy feely. Respect her space.
Also, consider your appearance. Don't come up to a girl if you smell like a barn, really smashed/stoned, or if you're dressed like a bum. Consider her as well. If she looks sick, or if she looks pissed off, you're more than likely gonna get blown off, because she just isn't in the mood. I realize that sometimes you can still talk to her when she's in a mood, but trust me, 9 times out of 10 it doesn't matter what you look like, or what you say, you're not gonna get through to her. Even if you look bomb, she knows that she doesn't, and she's gonna be extremely embarrassed and insecure, and that won't help.
PICK UP LINES
This, seriously, is hit-and-miss. If you use one, and she's put off by it, just keep moving. She obviously doesn't have a sense of humor, and you don't wanna deal with some girl that takes herself so seriously that she won't laugh at what you have to say.
Don't try to look smooth when using a pickup line. They're meant to be used as a joke to break the ice, and if you say one with a serious ass look on your face, you will be considered pathetic and useless.
Also, if she doesn't respond to you, just keep moving. But, catch her eye from time to time, to exhibit some interest. Girls like to be chased somewhat. If she blows you off, continue to work the room, but meet eyes with her from time to time when you see her. Showing interest even after you've been blown off might get you a second chance.
THE FRIENDS SITUATION
If you walk up to a girl that's with a group of friends, excuse yourself. The last thing you need is her friends fucking shit up for you which, 85% of the time, they will. Walk up, say excuse me, and look all of the friends in the group in the eye. It shows the target that you are not a pompous, disrespectful bastard. This is your chance to say something funny/witty/charming that will not only calm the basket of blood-sucking tarantulas that are her friends, but it will make her feel all special that you picked her out of the crowd.
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"Hello ladies, how are you all doing [look them all in the eye, then revert back to the target]?
I don't mean to interrupt your good time, but I had to come over here and introduce myself to this [insert compliment here] lady that caught my eye."
Keep eye contact with the target at all times at this point, and really concentrate on whatever she says. Then, if she responds to you, hold out your hand to take hers, and at all costs, lead her away from the pack. You don't need her friends to interview you, they're not doing it because they care, they're doing it because 1- they're nosy as fuck, and 2- they're gonna plot a way to steal you away from her.